Possible bug, not sure, need some help. I can't progress the BFF questline any further. I've solved the mystery of the milkshakes, and the next hint says "Visit her dorm and talk about sex." However, when I visit her dorm, the only two options are "Hang out" and "Watch a movie," even when the BFF's roommate isn't there.
Minor quality of life suggestion. After 10:00pm when you're forced to leave QuickieBurger allow the player a final change of clothes as they leave. I'm sure there are people that would change into everyday clothes as they leave instead of leaving with work clothes on.
thank you for the update and Sorry if this is bothersome, but i was wondering if you had any type of plans to add in fake nails again sorry if im bothering you
Working at Quickie Burger will offer more events than the Sumnit Market, but they have a dresscode.
The pay at start is similar but you will get some raises.. 9/11 and after the streaking up to 15.
Any streaming seems more profitable, but will need to invest in better equipment to make it really worth..
Videogames skills is the more profitable.. you can bet daily 50 and there're the tournaments in the weekends. (at the Arcade in Town)
In the lounge of the dorm during the day till 10 PM you can play with someone, let them win and probably they will ask for another kind of game.. they will make a bet for 10 bucks!
The Harasser spreading rumors about you.. you can get up to 50 for blowing a stranger (some of them won't pay that much cause they're broken)
Gardening is really limited right now, but also the Greenhouse can be used to gain a bit of extra bucks.
More works will be available in future (need time to write the scenes).
Okay thanks i just have a old save and i never did the assignments before than and i cant get them to go up so I'm just really struggling but it would be cool if there was a cheat to up your GPA
i did not expect to find something _that_ addictive yet immersive and rewarding here at itch.io, even in the «for adults» section despite it being somewhat famous for all those slice of life visual novels. for me, «course of temptation» beats all of the titles i've tried by (i think) being a text-only interactive fiction (made me actually _read_ the story rather then click through) and bringing a meaningful subset of realistic routine activities in a sandbox'y, non-linear, «you decide'y» way that the player settles into and really «lives through». loved it from the very start even before all the lewd stuff became possible.
of course nothing is ever ideal (and it's a good thing too!) so i had zillion ideas about how things should or could have worked. not going to bother the author and other players with those, lol: i bet every player has tons of similar ideas and the discord forum is already brim full of them (sorry i hate that proprietary platform, i wish the discussion board lived on fediverse, matrix maybe, idn); i'll only mention the most persisting through my play:
1) i wish the cot society, both in the town and on the campus were not so uni-aged; there are adults but they behave very differently in-game with very few options; ex. i'd like for the professors to have phone numbers and be potentially available for chat, inviting out, harassment or stalking, be part of the gossip landscape, etc.;
2) past a certain point, everybody becomes very consensual, unrealistically so, the result being: the sex scenes become mostly repetitive and uninteresting, suddenly the pc practically doesn't have to persuade, beg for a certain activity or pose, there's no more feeling of life and human interaction and after that part of the game just becomes pornographic;
3) there's practically no emotional landscape: spending more time with the partner's friends or even rivals and agressors doesn't seem change the partner's response and doesn't create the tension that's so much part of real life interactions (humans _are_ possessive that way no matter how civilized we want to believe ourselves);
4) the town should be much, much larger =)
lastly, the one real grudge i have against the author: for me, you've made all the other visual novels out there look linear and shallow so now i just can't find anything to move to from cot! how am i supposed to put the game aside and wait for those new releases with more content? you've ruined my gaming experience, although in a painfully good way =)
DoL(Degrees of Lewdity) is similar though slightly more odd. Personally I like them both, id give a slight edge to DoL only because it feels more complete
thank you for the suggestion. i've tried dol now, and while technically it's a very similar game to cot, the two could not have been more different emotionally however: where cot creates a playful, fun atmosphere of exploration of hidden but not exactly dark parts of the life, dol from the very start has appeared depressing, hopeless and full of mindless child abuse; i could not bare it for long and had to uninstall. two very different experiences indeed.
Yeah its. Certainly a thing. I like the gameplay where you do farming and stuff for money but at a point it just gets depressing. That and the "all characters are over 18!" Thing is constantly having X pressed to doubt because some of the writing doesn't do a good job at keeping that canon 😭
I realize that I have to comment, because this game has really surprised me with how good it is.
I was hesitant about it when I started, because it was a little outside of what I normally play, but this game has managed to suck me in completely. The way the spicy scenes are mixed up with suspension-of-disbelief-supporting life sim mechanics works really well, and makes the wild things the characters get up to so much more exciting than they would be in a vacuum. So far I am particularly enchanted by the classroom harasser, roommate's partner, and best friend scenes, and also by the extracurriculars.
I don't know if I can even put into words what makes the game so addictive to me. The immersion, the excellent writing, the horny but still grounded scenarios... maybe it's all of it.
I also want to give kudos (and this may sound like damnation with faint praise though I don't mean it like that) for the fact that I've spotted literally zero grammar errors so far. I'm not a major grammar cop but a lot of NSFW games are so sloppy that it feels like the writer doesn't even have any respect for the reader. The closest I've gotten is a few encounters where I think my character was supposed to undress to flash some people, but the body part was already exposed, causing the game to say I "nothing" as a verb, but that's just an inevitable bug, not sloppiness from your part.
Anyway, what I mainly wanted to say was, great job! This is clearly a work of passion, and I look forward to playing even more of this game. While I am at the moment rather destitute, I will probably be mentioning this game to the friends I am intimate enough with to recommend such a thing, and I probably will pay for the game too in a month, when I have some money to spare.
I hope you keep working on this awesome game. Maybe add more scenes with the classroom harrasser and roommate's boyfriend? Please? If you want to :)
Wow, this is one of the kindest reviews I've ever gotten. Thanks so much for taking the time to write your thoughts!
The erotic games I like the best are ones that take place in a relatively grounded world. It's all about context for me... kinky scenes in a world where everything is sex-crazed madness all the time anyway just don't hit the same as they would in a world where everybody is otherwise fairly rational and realistic. When I was designing the game, putting the wilder scenes in the context of a pretty grounded life sim sandbox just seemed like the thing to do to get the erotic stuff to stand out.
I'm glad you haven't found any grammar errors! I do make mistakes but I try to catch them. :) Before this game my main "line of work" was writing erotica, so mostly it's just a lot of practice. Bugs certainly do happen though!
Please don't feel bad about not being able to offer monetary support. I'm very grateful and appreciative of the people who choose to support me in that way — I literally couldn't be doing this without them — but I know very, very well what it's like to be in a position where there just isn't anything to spare. I don't expect anybody to put themselves in a bad position just to help me, but I truly do appreciate the thought. Spreading the word about the game is also an enormous help!
The Harasser and Admirer will both get large revisions in the upcoming major update (0.5). I have plans for the roommate and their partner too... I don't think they'll make it in right away but probably in an immediate followup (say, 0.5.1). I hope you'll like the direction they go in!
Ohhhh! Roommates's partner and roommate getting more content? Nice!
I love the game as a whole and I am trying to explore every inch of it, but I have to say, that specific route is one of my utmost favorites thus far.
The way you play it out with the roommate's partner sort of "measuring you up" or doing sexual things without you being a part of it is very well done, and it makes you want to do those things just to see how the relationship is going to be developing. Can't wait for the upcoming updates to see what else you bring up to the table
I've played this game a bunch in the last few weeks, and I still really like the harasser and roomate's boyfriend, so I'm excited to see more of them! I also tested out more of the sports content, and while I don't think I've found everything the football team and esports teams have to offer yet, I've enjoyed all of the routes. I hope there will be more content there, as well. I like how they very slowly take you into a very different kind of world, but still a believable one. There's a suspension-of-disbelief needle that you're threading very carefully there, but the fact that you pull it off makes it really good. I just hope there will be more content there :)
Eh, I used many words to basically say I hope to see more content everywhere. I think you've got a really nice project going on, and since I saw something about a discord server (or am I mistaken?) I'm gonna look into that next. I'm really glad to have found this gem.
I was wondering if there will be an expansion on reputation? Maybe some more different comments by NPCs and the way they behave?
Would love to see NPCs asking you for booty calls on the phone messages, or commenting about you in more details in the Elkbook if your reputation is good or bad enough
The starting with BF is really slow.. he will invite you at first to sudy, then to the bar in town and to the gym for a swim..
Talk about sex should easily appear after 8PM but the progress with BF requires to solve the milkshake mistery at the parties.. if you look a bit down there're already some post for that..
Hello, it's been a while since I've played this and was playing the newest update yesterday.
I wanted to notify you of a couple things I've come across as well as ask a few things:
.- The roommate's partner quest seems to be a bit bugged at the moment. I have gone through three weeks or more (I can't really remember right now) and it's not triggering whatsoever.
I have decided to cheat a little bit for the sake of testing and pretty much skipped days, and what triggered first was the shower scene where they ask you if they can stay in your stall because they needed a shower. That didn't change anything, I continued skipping and I managed to trigger it again and this time it actually did trigger the first step of the quest, which is listening to them having sex, but the game doesn't think the conditions for that step has been met.
If I recall correctly, this has happened to me in the previous update as well where the conditions for that route are seemingly almost never met (I had a few times where I could actually progress it, but most of the time it was just having to repeat the same event over and over).
.- The football club introduction event for some reason has regressed back to the start at one point where the team's captain introduces you to how things work in there.
I don't know how this one triggered, to be honest it has never happened to me before, but it was an odd bug
.- This one, I'm not entirely sure if it is a bug or if it is intended to work like this.. but the ESports matches (the ones you can watch at the Chamberlain Hall) are very few and far between at the moment.
I can't remember off the top of my head if they were so sporadic before, but I believe there used to be more of them
.- The occassional garden tend action event, which I'm assuming is the one where an NPC comes offering you some tips about it, if you go through and are willing to hear their tips.. you can tend a second time, which as far as I know, normally, it's a one time per day action.
Those are all of the things I wanted to talk about in regards to bugs or may-be bugs, now onto the questions I'd like to make
.- Firstly, there are some characters shown when you select the option to assign gender to the special characters manually, and there are certain characters like:
--- The Parasocial Fan --- The River Rat Owner --- The Mail Center Worker --- The Resident Advisor --- The Campus Cop
And my question is, how do you meet this people? I know there is a Resident Campus Advisor, there is a worker in the Mail Center at the Camberlain Hall and a Campus Cop for security purposes during the night mainly, but the way this is worded.. means that you can actually interact with these people, unless I'm understanding it wrong.
I have seen in game the notification about the cryptocurrency, I believe it was, and distrusting the Major and the director of the university.. but other than that I haven't been able to find a way to meet with this person whatsoever
So, any advices on how to meet with these people, especifically the Parasocial Fan?
.- Secondly, I have played a fair amount of hours throughout this new update to try and trigger the new events, some of them which I like a lot.. they add some depth and flavor to the world, like the milkshakes, the new introduction based off on your sexual preferences (gods, how I wished Captain Big Dick as it's called in game would've teased you too and offered himself to you, considering he was looking at both you and the girl) and some others that currently aren't coming to mind, but I am struggling with a few of them
It says in the patch notes that there's an oral variation for the laundry scene, which I haven't been able to successfully trigger (I don't even know how to trigger it to be honest, my only take on it at the moment is that it happens when you get stuck trying to retrieve your laundry, but that doesn't make sense considering your rear is facing whoever is passing by the laundry room, not your front)
There's also the new event with the remote controlled vibrator, which I couldn't for the life of me trigger at all. I don't know if it's a super rare event or if you need some specific requirements to trigger it, but I have cheated this for the sake of trying to trigger it.. increasing my Disinhibition and Exhibitionism values to very high, I have the remote controlled vibrator, I have become a camboy (wasn't sure if this affected it in any way), I have linked the vibrator to my fellows before going to a match during Saturdays with your club (or while you watch an ESports match in the Chamberlain Hall) but the things I attempted did not work, such as:
--- Sharing the invite link moments before the game (Saturday game) --- Sharing the invite link at the start of the day --- Sharing the invite link moments before the start of the ESports match (the one in Chamberlain Hall)
The wording here is a little bit confusing too, it says: "Sharing a public link to your toy may no longer be a good idea on esports game days"
What does the game consider to be ESports Game days, does it mean every Saturday where you play a game with the club of your choosing, or does it mean while watching an ESports game at the Chamberlain Hall?
The clothes hazard at Hallowell Building, to be honest I haven't attempted it.. so I won't talk about it for now, but I would appreciate the help in figuring out how to unlock these.
Overall though, very good update which adds quite a bit of fun to the game. Keep up the good work!
EDIT: One thing I forgot to mention as well, a suggestion about the combat system itself, which per se isn't really a combat system more like: "Choose the way you want the scene to go".
It is a little awkward that NPC's can't get hard again after only a single time ejaculation. Maybe they can experience a refractory period like it happens in real life, but personally, I feel like you should still be able to get the NPC hard again to have some more kinky fun.
Say you want to get penetrated by them after giving them fellatio, and while you technically can, it ruins the immersion knowing that they are fucking you with a soft dick.
Also, could be fun to see things like your character being unable to take on big genitals all too well the less experience they have. Such as, clumsily giving a blowjob, but being more proficient at it the more you practice it, to the point where maybe you can deepthroat it.
Same with anal, being clumsy at anal stuff until you practice it, and when you're proficient at it you can touch your prostate.. try to find someone else's prostate.
It could be fun as well, now that the system for asking NPC's to be more gentle or rougher with you, to have things such as throat-fucking be an option for that, and other things like that. I'm sure this will get expanded in the future, as it's only the introduction of it, but at the moment it doesn't really feel relevant as the behavior of the NPC's doesn't change all that much
It’s impressive how much the game developed in such short time! It’s probably the game I have played most in my smartphone in this year.
Still have to play 0.4.27, but in 0.4.26 I’m trying to get things further with a NPC I met for the first time, The Religious Girl, but I don’t get any hints about her, even with friendship and romance maxed (and lust about 30%), it’s…. normal?
You can buy those at the market or in the lounge in the dorm, at landing near the restroom in city, protein bars are more for the vegan i guess.. but sure muscles needing food or you will lose weight if you just train without eat..
No, i'm not judging, just saying there're many variables while adding new options.. This mean lot of work for the team, isn't the child the issue, people will probably react to the pregnancy, will need to add stuffs.. Or you planning to avoid contact with others for the last of pregnancy?
- In the swimming sport the team is able to see you naked and exposed once you progress the talk with the Quietly Determined Athlete, but you don't see them (neither when they have sex later or naked training coming after..)
- The Ambitious Athlete seems to be present to the training just to complain about her times, perhaps she should train more and talk less!
- Once you manage to make The Classroom Harasser friendly turning the table, the Bitch says, while attempting to hangout together through the phone, would be up for a Booty Call but doesn't appear in the list for those
- You can date The River Rat Owner & The Arcade Denizen but seems missing a chance to have sex with them.. still have to test the The Tattoo Artist and the Piercer cause is really hard meet them out of the shop..
(would be nice perhaps a way to interact with them in the tattoo shop)
-Coming back after the summer break will need to wait a week for the next tournament at the Arcade if you did one the last week of the previous year.
I was trying so hard to level up the lust and romance levels of THE BEST FRIEND, but he just doesn't get the idea even if the parameter is already reaching half 😭 btw author can you also add option of dating someone?
You just need to solve the milkshake mistery to start having fun with the Best Friend, popularity is mostly for the stream income
After the milkshake you will have to keep visiting the BF in the dorm, talk about sex a bunch of time then you can date and have all the fun you wanna as any other characther
Most welcome, if you're still a virgin the BF would be really happy to help to solve the issue and romance will go up a little with BF, but you can easily romance the BF as any other with hang out and date (those will works also before the milkshake, but still no sex till the milkshake mistery is solved)
You can start the milkshake once you notice the taste of it (if you're playing as girl, as those should be just for them cause the Rich Boy rule the machine) or when you got a different text once you enter the party (if you never tasted the milkshake as girl or playing as boy), you will need to go inside where the restroom and snacks are located and check the noises coming from the room
After the discovery of the secret ingredient you wanna talk to the BF, go out in the main room and you would probably notice the BF has a milkshake in hand.. act fast!
Why do many people dislike the idea of the pregnancy update? I think it would be more 'entertaining' if added a pregnancy update, also adding menstruation, contraceptives and stuff, I know that women during their ovulation feel horny, that's an extra point. IT IS realistic, after all it's a life simulator
Hi, hi! Time to chime in as a normal commenter. I'm just guessing that it's a question been asked, so many times. I seen that question been asked a lot during my time here I guess, I could be wrong though... :p
Because that's an update only available to straight people, and there are many more important updates than pregnancy, such as weather, seasons, crime...
Technically, transgender men could theoretically get pregnant if they hadn't had a sex change operation. But yes, I do agree that weather, seasons, etc, are quite important. I think there should be a pregnancy update in the near future, but that's up to Archano.
You're very wrong, not only straight people get pregnant. It's just as important of an update as any other. At the end of the day, it's up to the team what they decide to tackle next...
I mean like if you play a lesbian you can still engage with the pregnancy update... bc trans women exist... and they do have kids... if you play as a gay guy you can engage with it becaude trans men exist... and they're in the game.. And you can play as a bi person..
Does anyone know how long it takes to join a sport after quiting a different sport? It's been weeks since I quit esports. I also want to know how to invite someone to stream on CollegeCams.
For the second, you need to know people's traits. In order to invite someone, they need the exhibitionist trait. and probably a high enough relationship with your character.
You went back to the Blodgett Gym and ordered the new uniform for the new sport you wanna start or signed to it if you already got it?
Blodgett Gym is a frankly huge building with a ton of rooms and equipment inside. The university definitely spared no expense here.
The Campus Recreation office is here. It's where students can sign up for intramural sports and order their uniforms. [1] Enter the Campus Recreation office
i’ve played two times on the exact same phone with the exact same settings. each time the best friend and roommate had a different name. i’m pretty sure it’s just randomized.
Perhaphs is the world feed to be different, also playing with the sliders for the world seems affect the changes in the names, that is done to give always a different experience whenever you play again the game..
You can either customize the BF as you like at start, also the name.
There is no gender locking clothing so you can just wear clothing generaly considered feminine. But if you wanna go fully masculine than I think some shorts and t-shirts/tops is the best you can get. Definetly something with slutty tag.
It's been long since I've last commented here, busy with life and stuff- So I'm here today to give some other ideas to add and oh boy... It's going to be a long one...
1) Types of video games and dance pads.
So for this idea, since we have gaming PCS and laptops to play games with. Why not add the types of games we can play? Like a game about chess that improves your video gaming skills and intellectual skills or a game that requires a dance pad like dance dance revolution which improves physical and dancing skills. This can pair well with streaming too, of course it will relate to the type of stream like play a game about chess on a chess related stream. Speaking of dance pads, why not add a item which is the dance pad to the shop?
2) Student ID?
Since we're universities students, why not add student IDs? A card verifying somebody's identity as a university student and entitling them to services, discounts, etc. Gives to whose who don't use cheats to get money a simpler time as it'll can give certain shop's prices discounts. (Can be 10 to 25 percent I believe.) Of course you get them at the admissions office, it's gives the admissions office a purpose as we can see it's mentioned but not a place we can visit yet. (Unless the clinic is also the admissions office.)
3) Adding to the laundry room events.
So, clothes can get stolen while we're in the showers right? Why not the chances of happening can be also be at the laundry room? Like this, after every hour or 30 minutes of you not taking out your clothes from the laundry room... The chances of some pieces of clothing get stolen increases, not too much though. This adds some elements of surprises to the day.
4) Events with partners.
Since the update on relationships is still ongoing, I'm suggesting some fluff events that can happen time to times if you have a partner. Like if you have the same class as them, they or us can sit beside each other and certain events can happen. Hand holding under the table, passing love notes to each other... This also opens some slight nsfw events too like them suggestively touching you in secret while acting innocent, whispering some suggestive things or jokes to you... And depending on who's more assertive or compliance in the relationship, it opens many unique interactions. (I read too many fanfics...)
Okay, I'm stopping at four so it isn't as overwhelming. I will come back for more, so see you next time and take it slow.
One thing to correct since it seem to be a missed "logical bug": I can have my character go in "Dressed in a Towel" (and Slippers) everywhere with Quick Travel, but when I go top-less (as a male with Exhibition Level 4 that is!) I am not allowed to enter the Bus or any Faculty Building? (Haven't tried the Faculty Buildings with Towel and Slippers yet, but that's next ;-P )
Is this because there is no difference between males and females in the background maybe (then it would make somewhat sense)?
Cheers and still love your Game so much and also the customization options for every name-unlocked Character now.
P.S.: One more small detail though: I was recently surprised by an unexpected sexual encounter in the showers, that basically was a "trap". I will check the name coloring scheme again to see, if it was my own mistake for not paying attention to it though since I remember there being a color scheme to indicate what kind of folks we're encountering.
Since the Options allow for a lot of preference settings - which is why I also love your Game so much -, but I also read the hints in them, that they do not eliminate unwanted options entirely, I'm sure there was something I was missing.
The dares are to train you as a perfect FCK-U slut, so far seems that is the only interest (first year of university), but still have to go deep in the game. perhaps in the next years could improve a bit the interest toward you, dunno how far they went with those two..
I met her casually i think at the park but i'm not in the Esport Team and i have her as friend now, so i guess should be possible have her as friend, you can use the cheat to fix the relationship in case she acted as a bitch disliking you from start..
So, the classroom admirer asked to study with me. Problem: I have shit memory and can't remember the where or when. Something about using the phone? But i can't find a study option there. Asked to chill and that didn't triggered it... what am i supposed to do? Did i break something..?
DoL also has female and herm PC options tho :D I also think the main reason for this one looking like that is just it being super polished and centered around grinding your stats/creating your own story which is pretty rare to find in html games nowadays (most "stats" they implement in their games are just very basic and act as a content gate mechanic)
I am absolutely loving the game so far but one thing I noticed is when having sex with a cis woman as a cis man is if the cis woman puts on a strap on and try’s to penetrate, she doesn’t actually penetrate and if you select “take strap on in ass” it doesn’t work
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Is being offered a milkshake in the party for female characters only?
The Rich Kid rules the machine, but you can steal some now, as male and shocking the others guys!
Possible bug, not sure, need some help. I can't progress the BFF questline any further. I've solved the mystery of the milkshakes, and the next hint says "Visit her dorm and talk about sex." However, when I visit her dorm, the only two options are "Hang out" and "Watch a movie," even when the BFF's roommate isn't there.
You need to raise a bit Disinhibition and Exhibitionism (there's an hidden skillcheck, you need atleast lvl 2 in each)
Minor quality of life suggestion. After 10:00pm when you're forced to leave QuickieBurger allow the player a final change of clothes as they leave. I'm sure there are people that would change into everyday clothes as they leave instead of leaving with work clothes on.
Or maybe I'm the oddball.
She's trying to find a solution for this, but she's busy with Relationship update, dunno if will manage to put them together..
4.27h added the option!
(Some errors could happens during it, she's aware, will fix those in the next)
thank you for the update and Sorry if this is bothersome, but i was wondering if you had any type of plans to add in fake nails again sorry if im bothering you
I think someone already suggested something similar in Discord (you all are welcome to join it!)
Dunno about Anthaum's reaction about it..
She's working hard over the relationship for now.. but the Roadmap is huge and sure more things can be added sooner or later!
Oh okay thank you🙏 I'll be sure to check it out!
Most welcome!
Are there any other jobs that I can do or is there any cheats that I can do to make more money than 7 dollars.
And what are some of the cheats
Option/Difficulty Options/Enable Cheats once checked it will appear the Cheat tab
Working at Quickie Burger will offer more events than the Sumnit Market, but they have a dresscode.
The pay at start is similar but you will get some raises.. 9/11 and after the streaking up to 15.
Any streaming seems more profitable, but will need to invest in better equipment to make it really worth..
Videogames skills is the more profitable.. you can bet daily 50 and there're the tournaments in the weekends. (at the Arcade in Town)
In the lounge of the dorm during the day till 10 PM you can play with someone, let them win and probably they will ask for another kind of game.. they will make a bet for 10 bucks!
The Harasser spreading rumors about you.. you can get up to 50 for blowing a stranger (some of them won't pay that much cause they're broken)
Gardening is really limited right now, but also the Greenhouse can be used to gain a bit of extra bucks.
More works will be available in future (need time to write the scenes).
Hey do you plan on adding GPA cheats?
Tecnically there's already a cheat inside the game! The task from the teachers improving your votes.. but sure you need to do homeworks atleast!
Okay thanks i just have a old save and i never did the assignments before than and i cant get them to go up so I'm just really struggling but it would be cool if there was a cheat to up your GPA
Be sure to talk to your teachers.. no one is forcing you to have sex with them to get them started..
i did not expect to find something _that_ addictive yet immersive and rewarding here at itch.io, even in the «for adults» section despite it being somewhat famous for all those slice of life visual novels. for me, «course of temptation» beats all of the titles i've tried by (i think) being a text-only interactive fiction (made me actually _read_ the story rather then click through) and bringing a meaningful subset of realistic routine activities in a sandbox'y, non-linear, «you decide'y» way that the player settles into and really «lives through». loved it from the very start even before all the lewd stuff became possible.
of course nothing is ever ideal (and it's a good thing too!) so i had zillion ideas about how things should or could have worked. not going to bother the author and other players with those, lol: i bet every player has tons of similar ideas and the discord forum is already brim full of them (sorry i hate that proprietary platform, i wish the discussion board lived on fediverse, matrix maybe, idn); i'll only mention the most persisting through my play:
1) i wish the cot society, both in the town and on the campus were not so uni-aged; there are adults but they behave very differently in-game with very few options; ex. i'd like for the professors to have phone numbers and be potentially available for chat, inviting out, harassment or stalking, be part of the gossip landscape, etc.;
2) past a certain point, everybody becomes very consensual, unrealistically so, the result being: the sex scenes become mostly repetitive and uninteresting, suddenly the pc practically doesn't have to persuade, beg for a certain activity or pose, there's no more feeling of life and human interaction and after that part of the game just becomes pornographic;
3) there's practically no emotional landscape: spending more time with the partner's friends or even rivals and agressors doesn't seem change the partner's response and doesn't create the tension that's so much part of real life interactions (humans _are_ possessive that way no matter how civilized we want to believe ourselves);
4) the town should be much, much larger =)
lastly, the one real grudge i have against the author: for me, you've made all the other visual novels out there look linear and shallow so now i just can't find anything to move to from cot! how am i supposed to put the game aside and wait for those new releases with more content? you've ruined my gaming experience, although in a painfully good way =)
thank you.
Join the Discord in the wait for more stuffs and help the city to grow with suggestions!
Yes, we need to spank Anthaum.. but that will slow the new release!
DoL(Degrees of Lewdity) is similar though slightly more odd. Personally I like them both, id give a slight edge to DoL only because it feels more complete
It has a few LIs and pregnancy
thank you for the suggestion. i've tried dol now, and while technically it's a very similar game to cot, the two could not have been more different emotionally however: where cot creates a playful, fun atmosphere of exploration of hidden but not exactly dark parts of the life, dol from the very start has appeared depressing, hopeless and full of mindless child abuse; i could not bare it for long and had to uninstall. two very different experiences indeed.
Yeah its. Certainly a thing. I like the gameplay where you do farming and stuff for money but at a point it just gets depressing. That and the "all characters are over 18!" Thing is constantly having X pressed to doubt because some of the writing doesn't do a good job at keeping that canon 😭
There is no cheerleading events anymore since the new update. The matches on Saturdays are no longer there. Is this a bug or part of the new update.
Are you in springtime by any chance? Spring is playoffs, and the season will end early if the Elks get knocked out.
Any cheats?
Option/Difficulty Options/Enable Cheats once checked it will appear the Cheat tab in options..
You can either play with the code if you got practice..
I realize that I have to comment, because this game has really surprised me with how good it is.
I was hesitant about it when I started, because it was a little outside of what I normally play, but this game has managed to suck me in completely. The way the spicy scenes are mixed up with suspension-of-disbelief-supporting life sim mechanics works really well, and makes the wild things the characters get up to so much more exciting than they would be in a vacuum. So far I am particularly enchanted by the classroom harasser, roommate's partner, and best friend scenes, and also by the extracurriculars.
I don't know if I can even put into words what makes the game so addictive to me. The immersion, the excellent writing, the horny but still grounded scenarios... maybe it's all of it.
I also want to give kudos (and this may sound like damnation with faint praise though I don't mean it like that) for the fact that I've spotted literally zero grammar errors so far. I'm not a major grammar cop but a lot of NSFW games are so sloppy that it feels like the writer doesn't even have any respect for the reader. The closest I've gotten is a few encounters where I think my character was supposed to undress to flash some people, but the body part was already exposed, causing the game to say I "nothing" as a verb, but that's just an inevitable bug, not sloppiness from your part.
Anyway, what I mainly wanted to say was, great job! This is clearly a work of passion, and I look forward to playing even more of this game. While I am at the moment rather destitute, I will probably be mentioning this game to the friends I am intimate enough with to recommend such a thing, and I probably will pay for the game too in a month, when I have some money to spare.
I hope you keep working on this awesome game. Maybe add more scenes with the classroom harrasser and roommate's boyfriend? Please? If you want to :)
There're.. you need to progress their story..
You will have the same roommate for long!
If you like the game consider about joining the community.. the discord is really active!
Wow, this is one of the kindest reviews I've ever gotten. Thanks so much for taking the time to write your thoughts!
The erotic games I like the best are ones that take place in a relatively grounded world. It's all about context for me... kinky scenes in a world where everything is sex-crazed madness all the time anyway just don't hit the same as they would in a world where everybody is otherwise fairly rational and realistic. When I was designing the game, putting the wilder scenes in the context of a pretty grounded life sim sandbox just seemed like the thing to do to get the erotic stuff to stand out.
I'm glad you haven't found any grammar errors! I do make mistakes but I try to catch them. :) Before this game my main "line of work" was writing erotica, so mostly it's just a lot of practice. Bugs certainly do happen though!
Please don't feel bad about not being able to offer monetary support. I'm very grateful and appreciative of the people who choose to support me in that way — I literally couldn't be doing this without them — but I know very, very well what it's like to be in a position where there just isn't anything to spare. I don't expect anybody to put themselves in a bad position just to help me, but I truly do appreciate the thought. Spreading the word about the game is also an enormous help!
The Harasser and Admirer will both get large revisions in the upcoming major update (0.5). I have plans for the roommate and their partner too... I don't think they'll make it in right away but probably in an immediate followup (say, 0.5.1). I hope you'll like the direction they go in!
Ohhhh! Roommates's partner and roommate getting more content? Nice!
I love the game as a whole and I am trying to explore every inch of it, but I have to say, that specific route is one of my utmost favorites thus far.
The way you play it out with the roommate's partner sort of "measuring you up" or doing sexual things without you being a part of it is very well done, and it makes you want to do those things just to see how the relationship is going to be developing. Can't wait for the upcoming updates to see what else you bring up to the table
Thank you for your hard work :)
I'm glad that my comment was appreciated :)
I've played this game a bunch in the last few weeks, and I still really like the harasser and roomate's boyfriend, so I'm excited to see more of them! I also tested out more of the sports content, and while I don't think I've found everything the football team and esports teams have to offer yet, I've enjoyed all of the routes. I hope there will be more content there, as well. I like how they very slowly take you into a very different kind of world, but still a believable one. There's a suspension-of-disbelief needle that you're threading very carefully there, but the fact that you pull it off makes it really good. I just hope there will be more content there :)
Eh, I used many words to basically say I hope to see more content everywhere. I think you've got a really nice project going on, and since I saw something about a discord server (or am I mistaken?) I'm gonna look into that next. I'm really glad to have found this gem.
I was wondering if there will be an expansion on reputation? Maybe some more different comments by NPCs and the way they behave?
Would love to see NPCs asking you for booty calls on the phone messages, or commenting about you in more details in the Elkbook if your reputation is good or bad enough
Yup, that's definitely something I'll continue to work on!
I can't do anything with my bf even after sex talk
The starting with BF is really slow.. he will invite you at first to sudy, then to the bar in town and to the gym for a swim..
Talk about sex should easily appear after 8PM but the progress with BF requires to solve the milkshake mistery at the parties.. if you look a bit down there're already some post for that..
Hello, it's been a while since I've played this and was playing the newest update yesterday.
I wanted to notify you of a couple things I've come across as well as ask a few things:
.- The roommate's partner quest seems to be a bit bugged at the moment. I have gone through three weeks or more (I can't really remember right now) and it's not triggering whatsoever.
I have decided to cheat a little bit for the sake of testing and pretty much skipped days, and what triggered first was the shower scene where they ask you if they can stay in your stall because they needed a shower. That didn't change anything, I continued skipping and I managed to trigger it again and this time it actually did trigger the first step of the quest, which is listening to them having sex, but the game doesn't think the conditions for that step has been met.
If I recall correctly, this has happened to me in the previous update as well where the conditions for that route are seemingly almost never met (I had a few times where I could actually progress it, but most of the time it was just having to repeat the same event over and over).
.- The football club introduction event for some reason has regressed back to the start at one point where the team's captain introduces you to how things work in there.
I don't know how this one triggered, to be honest it has never happened to me before, but it was an odd bug
.- This one, I'm not entirely sure if it is a bug or if it is intended to work like this.. but the ESports matches (the ones you can watch at the Chamberlain Hall) are very few and far between at the moment.
I can't remember off the top of my head if they were so sporadic before, but I believe there used to be more of them
.- The occassional garden tend action event, which I'm assuming is the one where an NPC comes offering you some tips about it, if you go through and are willing to hear their tips.. you can tend a second time, which as far as I know, normally, it's a one time per day action.
Those are all of the things I wanted to talk about in regards to bugs or may-be bugs, now onto the questions I'd like to make
.- Firstly, there are some characters shown when you select the option to assign gender to the special characters manually, and there are certain characters like:
--- The Parasocial Fan
--- The River Rat Owner
--- The Mail Center Worker
--- The Resident Advisor
--- The Campus Cop
And my question is, how do you meet this people? I know there is a Resident Campus Advisor, there is a worker in the Mail Center at the Camberlain Hall and a Campus Cop for security purposes during the night mainly, but the way this is worded.. means that you can actually interact with these people, unless I'm understanding it wrong.
I have seen in game the notification about the cryptocurrency, I believe it was, and distrusting the Major and the director of the university.. but other than that I haven't been able to find a way to meet with this person whatsoever
So, any advices on how to meet with these people, especifically the Parasocial Fan?
.- Secondly, I have played a fair amount of hours throughout this new update to try and trigger the new events, some of them which I like a lot.. they add some depth and flavor to the world, like the milkshakes, the new introduction based off on your sexual preferences (gods, how I wished Captain Big Dick as it's called in game would've teased you too and offered himself to you, considering he was looking at both you and the girl) and some others that currently aren't coming to mind, but I am struggling with a few of them
It says in the patch notes that there's an oral variation for the laundry scene, which I haven't been able to successfully trigger (I don't even know how to trigger it to be honest, my only take on it at the moment is that it happens when you get stuck trying to retrieve your laundry, but that doesn't make sense considering your rear is facing whoever is passing by the laundry room, not your front)
There's also the new event with the remote controlled vibrator, which I couldn't for the life of me trigger at all. I don't know if it's a super rare event or if you need some specific requirements to trigger it, but I have cheated this for the sake of trying to trigger it.. increasing my Disinhibition and Exhibitionism values to very high, I have the remote controlled vibrator, I have become a camboy (wasn't sure if this affected it in any way), I have linked the vibrator to my fellows before going to a match during Saturdays with your club (or while you watch an ESports match in the Chamberlain Hall) but the things I attempted did not work, such as:
--- Sharing the invite link moments before the game (Saturday game)
--- Sharing the invite link at the start of the day
--- Sharing the invite link moments before the start of the ESports match (the one in Chamberlain Hall)
The wording here is a little bit confusing too, it says: "Sharing a public link to your toy may no longer be a good idea on esports game days"
What does the game consider to be ESports Game days, does it mean every Saturday where you play a game with the club of your choosing, or does it mean while watching an ESports game at the Chamberlain Hall?
The clothes hazard at Hallowell Building, to be honest I haven't attempted it.. so I won't talk about it for now, but I would appreciate the help in figuring out how to unlock these.
Overall though, very good update which adds quite a bit of fun to the game. Keep up the good work!
EDIT: One thing I forgot to mention as well, a suggestion about the combat system itself, which per se isn't really a combat system more like: "Choose the way you want the scene to go".
It is a little awkward that NPC's can't get hard again after only a single time ejaculation. Maybe they can experience a refractory period like it happens in real life, but personally, I feel like you should still be able to get the NPC hard again to have some more kinky fun.
Say you want to get penetrated by them after giving them fellatio, and while you technically can, it ruins the immersion knowing that they are fucking you with a soft dick.
Also, could be fun to see things like your character being unable to take on big genitals all too well the less experience they have. Such as, clumsily giving a blowjob, but being more proficient at it the more you practice it, to the point where maybe you can deepthroat it.
Same with anal, being clumsy at anal stuff until you practice it, and when you're proficient at it you can touch your prostate.. try to find someone else's prostate.
It could be fun as well, now that the system for asking NPC's to be more gentle or rougher with you, to have things such as throat-fucking be an option for that, and other things like that. I'm sure this will get expanded in the future, as it's only the introduction of it, but at the moment it doesn't really feel relevant as the behavior of the NPC's doesn't change all that much
am i able to transfer my save data over to the new version or is it recommended to start a new one?
You can save and play on the newer version!
It’s impressive how much the game developed in such short time! It’s probably the game I have played most in my smartphone in this year. Still have to play 0.4.27, but in 0.4.26 I’m trying to get things further with a NPC I met for the first time, The Religious Girl, but I don’t get any hints about her, even with friendship and romance maxed (and lust about 30%), it’s…. normal?
how do you proceed with plans with people? Arcade buddy told me to text them on saffron street but I see 0 options for it
You mean a date with him? There's a big building you need to be there usually after 6 PM..
You will see a different icon over the building, click on the building and you can choose to go to the date..
Check the phone to see if the date is still going..
Anyone knows how to increase muscle and fat?
I noticed that my muscle seems to be decreasing even if I work out. Don't know why
You can eat 2 types of food every time you aren't full at the table, snacks and protein bars when training, energy drinks to workout more..
With low Physical running at park and swimming, you gain also doing weight training, but is more effective with higher stat..
Muscles will decrease with time, just keep doing a good routine, but don't forget to party and studing!
so you are saying, I have to take protein bars to gain or maintain muscle
And snacks to gain or maintain fat,
But what is considered a snack?
You can buy those at the market or in the lounge in the dorm, at landing near the restroom in city, protein bars are more for the vegan i guess.. but sure muscles needing food or you will lose weight if you just train without eat..
with a profile like that, I can definitely trust you
What will happen if you got a child with one of the teachers? Paternity test? If that will happen while drunk or abused by a stranger?
There're many options.. would be sure an huge update..
No, i'm not judging, just saying there're many variables while adding new options.. This mean lot of work for the team, isn't the child the issue, people will probably react to the pregnancy, will need to add stuffs.. Or you planning to avoid contact with others for the last of pregnancy?
Impregnation?
There's pregnancy on the roadmap, still need time.. lot of stuffs on it
How do i have sex with the best friend? I did the talk about sex thing once and it doesnt appear anymore when i go to his room.
To have sex with the BF need some time.
-Need to partecipate to the Friday party
-Solve the mistery about the milkshake and accept the the deal with the Rich Boy
-Keep talking about sex whenever you got chance
If you look a little down in the tread there're already many asking about it
Just some little issues i found..
- In the swimming sport the team is able to see you naked and exposed once you progress the talk with the Quietly Determined Athlete, but you don't see them (neither when they have sex later or naked training coming after..)
- The Ambitious Athlete seems to be present to the training just to complain about her times, perhaps she should train more and talk less!
Team status at the end of the first year
- Once you manage to make The Classroom Harasser friendly turning the table, the Bitch says, while attempting to hangout together through the phone, would be up for a Booty Call but doesn't appear in the list for those
- You can date The River Rat Owner & The Arcade Denizen but seems missing a chance to have sex with them.. still have to test the The Tattoo Artist and the Piercer cause is really hard meet them out of the shop..
(would be nice perhaps a way to interact with them in the tattoo shop)
-Coming back after the summer break will need to wait a week for the next tournament at the Arcade if you did one the last week of the previous year.
Error in Pool
I was trying so hard to level up the lust and romance levels of THE BEST FRIEND, but he just doesn't get the idea even if the parameter is already reaching half 😭 btw author can you also add option of dating someone?
you'll have to finish their questline, go to the quad parties and raise party popularity
The dating someone part is coming in the next major update of the game if i'm not mistaken
You just need to solve the milkshake mistery to start having fun with the Best Friend, popularity is mostly for the stream income
After the milkshake you will have to keep visiting the BF in the dorm, talk about sex a bunch of time then you can date and have all the fun you wanna as any other characther
Ohhhhh, alright ty!
Most welcome, if you're still a virgin the BF would be really happy to help to solve the issue and romance will go up a little with BF, but you can easily romance the BF as any other with hang out and date (those will works also before the milkshake, but still no sex till the milkshake mistery is solved)
You can start the milkshake once you notice the taste of it (if you're playing as girl, as those should be just for them cause the Rich Boy rule the machine) or when you got a different text once you enter the party (if you never tasted the milkshake as girl or playing as boy), you will need to go inside where the restroom and snacks are located and check the noises coming from the room
After the discovery of the secret ingredient you wanna talk to the BF, go out in the main room and you would probably notice the BF has a milkshake in hand.. act fast!
Why do many people dislike the idea of the pregnancy update? I think it would be more 'entertaining' if added a pregnancy update, also adding menstruation, contraceptives and stuff, I know that women during their ovulation feel horny, that's an extra point. IT IS realistic, after all it's a life simulator
Hi, hi! Time to chime in as a normal commenter. I'm just guessing that it's a question been asked, so many times. I seen that question been asked a lot during my time here I guess, I could be wrong though... :p
Because that's an update only available to straight people, and there are many more important updates than pregnancy, such as weather, seasons, crime...
Ah... I see, thanks for clearing this question for this particular subject.
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Technically, transgender men could theoretically get pregnant if they hadn't had a sex change operation. But yes, I do agree that weather, seasons, etc, are quite important. I think there should be a pregnancy update in the near future, but that's up to Archano.
You're very wrong, not only straight people get pregnant. It's just as important of an update as any other. At the end of the day, it's up to the team what they decide to tackle next...
Scratches head in bisexuals
I mean like if you play a lesbian you can still engage with the pregnancy update... bc trans women exist... and they do have kids... if you play as a gay guy you can engage with it becaude trans men exist... and they're in the game.. And you can play as a bi person..
Especially since I'm sure you'll be able to tog it off if you don't like it, same as it happens with body hair, for example.
Does anyone know how long it takes to join a sport after quiting a different sport? It's been weeks since I quit esports. I also want to know how to invite someone to stream on CollegeCams.
dunno bout the first question.
For the second, you need to know people's traits. In order to invite someone, they need the exhibitionist trait. and probably a high enough relationship with your character.
I need to know how to invite people first. Do you message them on the phone or something?
You get the option to invite someone when you go to start a stream in CollegeCams, just above where you can add toys.
There's a two week cooldown to join another sport.
It's been longer than two weeks for me. I think I already went to the Quad party at least four times at this point.
A simple question..
You went back to the Blodgett Gym and ordered the new uniform for the new sport you wanna start or signed to it if you already got it?
Blodgett Gym is a frankly huge building with a ton of rooms and equipment inside. The university definitely spared no expense here.
The Campus Recreation office is here. It's where students can sign up for intramural sports and order their uniforms.
[1] Enter the Campus Recreation office
Just out of curiosity, why are the best friend names different in the Android version than in the desktop version?
i’ve played two times on the exact same phone with the exact same settings. each time the best friend and roommate had a different name. i’m pretty sure it’s just randomized.
I was just wondering because on PC it's been the same names on all my playthroughs
Perhaphs is the world feed to be different, also playing with the sliders for the world seems affect the changes in the names, that is done to give always a different experience whenever you play again the game..
You can either customize the BF as you like at start, also the name.
any chance the porn shop glory holes will be accessible outside of the dares?
Yes, the contributor who wrote the gloryhole dare is working on writing more events with them
does anyone know the most revealing outfit for a male pc?
There is no gender locking clothing so you can just wear clothing generaly considered feminine. But if you wanna go fully masculine than I think some shorts and t-shirts/tops is the best you can get. Definetly something with slutty tag.
Still waiting for pregnancy update,it's still considered for future updates right? Right?
At least it's still will be added since it's written in description,and i won't give up waiting since it's a great game
*Magically comes out of nowhere*
Hi-
It's been long since I've last commented here, busy with life and stuff- So I'm here today to give some other ideas to add and oh boy... It's going to be a long one...
1) Types of video games and dance pads.
So for this idea, since we have gaming PCS and laptops to play games with. Why not add the types of games we can play? Like a game about chess that improves your video gaming skills and intellectual skills or a game that requires a dance pad like dance dance revolution which improves physical and dancing skills. This can pair well with streaming too, of course it will relate to the type of stream like play a game about chess on a chess related stream. Speaking of dance pads, why not add a item which is the dance pad to the shop?
2) Student ID?
Since we're universities students, why not add student IDs? A card verifying somebody's identity as a university student and entitling them to services, discounts, etc. Gives to whose who don't use cheats to get money a simpler time as it'll can give certain shop's prices discounts. (Can be 10 to 25 percent I believe.) Of course you get them at the admissions office, it's gives the admissions office a purpose as we can see it's mentioned but not a place we can visit yet. (Unless the clinic is also the admissions office.)
3) Adding to the laundry room events.
So, clothes can get stolen while we're in the showers right? Why not the chances of happening can be also be at the laundry room? Like this, after every hour or 30 minutes of you not taking out your clothes from the laundry room... The chances of some pieces of clothing get stolen increases, not too much though. This adds some elements of surprises to the day.
4) Events with partners.
Since the update on relationships is still ongoing, I'm suggesting some fluff events that can happen time to times if you have a partner. Like if you have the same class as them, they or us can sit beside each other and certain events can happen. Hand holding under the table, passing love notes to each other... This also opens some slight nsfw events too like them suggestively touching you in secret while acting innocent, whispering some suggestive things or jokes to you... And depending on who's more assertive or compliance in the relationship, it opens many unique interactions. (I read too many fanfics...)
Okay, I'm stopping at four so it isn't as overwhelming. I will come back for more, so see you next time and take it slow.
One thing to correct since it seem to be a missed "logical bug":
I can have my character go in "Dressed in a Towel" (and Slippers) everywhere with Quick Travel, but when I go top-less (as a male with Exhibition Level 4 that is!) I am not allowed to enter the Bus or any Faculty Building? (Haven't tried the Faculty Buildings with Towel and Slippers yet, but that's next ;-P )
Is this because there is no difference between males and females in the background maybe (then it would make somewhat sense)?
Cheers and still love your Game so much and also the customization options for every name-unlocked Character now.
P.S.: One more small detail though: I was recently surprised by an unexpected sexual encounter in the showers, that basically was a "trap". I will check the name coloring scheme again to see, if it was my own mistake for not paying attention to it though since I remember there being a color scheme to indicate what kind of folks we're encountering.
Since the Options allow for a lot of preference settings - which is why I also love your Game so much -, but I also read the hints in them, that they do not eliminate unwanted options entirely, I'm sure there was something I was missing.
Do you just gotta keep doing the dares Quinn gives you or do you not?
The dares are to train you as a perfect FCK-U slut, so far seems that is the only interest (first year of university), but still have to go deep in the game. perhaps in the next years could improve a bit the interest toward you, dunno how far they went with those two..
how do you introduce the 360 no-scoper to the e-girl?
hangout with the e-girl every satnight
Question... is there anything in the game currently?
Like after you befriends some students, teachers, and strangers
Do some quests
Earn Cash
Is there a point to continue with classes and stuff?
I'm just curious like how will i know if I unlocked everything from a character or event
like for the Esport club, is it even possible to befriend the E-girl?
I met her casually i think at the park but i'm not in the Esport Team and i have her as friend now, so i guess should be possible have her as friend, you can use the cheat to fix the relationship in case she acted as a bitch disliking you from start..
Yo how do i activate these cheats? 7 dolla a hour is far too bad for me
So, the classroom admirer asked to study with me. Problem: I have shit memory and can't remember the where or when. Something about using the phone? But i can't find a study option there. Asked to chill and that didn't triggered it... what am i supposed to do? Did i break something..?
Ohhh, it's in my room, found it, never mind.
is there any plans to make character sprite
FINALLY a new game thats like degrees of lewdity (My favorite NSFW game)
Must be nice to finally find a game with a female PC option, huh? XD
DoL also has female and herm PC options tho :D I also think the main reason for this one looking like that is just it being super polished and centered around grinding your stats/creating your own story which is pretty rare to find in html games nowadays (most "stats" they implement in their games are just very basic and act as a content gate mechanic)
It was a joke, OP has a history of asking if games have the ability to play as a female PC xD
Oh, my bad then lol. I am happy that the author provides us with many ways to customize our characters as I like playing MtF Trans if possible!
Been playing for a few months and I love the game so far. Can't wait for the relationship status update!
I'm loving this game so far! Just a quick question, are you able to check out books from the library to improve the cooking and gardening skills?
There is no way to check out books yet, but there is the magazines to read and a few other ways to train those skills!
I am absolutely loving the game so far but one thing I noticed is when having sex with a cis woman as a cis man is if the cis woman puts on a strap on and try’s to penetrate, she doesn’t actually penetrate and if you select “take strap on in ass” it doesn’t work